kensei wrote:fujicolt wrote:and please do not use your wife as an analogy excuse - our poor wives have had to put up with so much - including getting intimate with us - and James, though we have never met i can't see us getting intimate to solve a disagreement
A few quick points that I want to make after this point.
First I agree with the agree to disagree agreeably.....great idea, now we must all learn to do this and not just say it...Neh?
Now, as for the wife thing, other than you missing a joke...yet again....I find it funny..your reaction that it.
My wife does not "put up with me", just a few of my ecentricities....and My want and need to dance about violently in white pajamas with other people..but she married me knowing this!
If your wife must "put up with" being intimate with you...that is your issue. I would venture to say that most of our wives dont see it as "putting up with us" in the least (I got the joke, but you left the door open mate)
And I have to AGREEABLY AGREE WITH YOU....I dont venture the solution to many of our disagreements would include our getting intimate! In fact I venture to say if we ever did meet A hand shake at a distance woudl be the start...a long distance after that comment!
Meeting you would be a joy James I am sure - and No I don't think you got the Joke - your wife assures me being intimate with you is something she has to put up with! I am Joking Iam Joking - Honest - she reckons tis OK and she can cope