I would never advocate the level of contact for a child to be the same as for an adult but it is absolutely vital for us to become accustomed to heavy contact as adults.I remember the first time I was punched in the face during a sparring session and it was not the pain that stopped me it was just the shock and the sight of blood. The ability to absorb a punch and keep functioning is a prerequisite for effective combat. I appreciate we all have to go to work the next day but a few bruised forearms is a small price to pay imo.
Back in the day we would decamp to the pub after training and count our bruises, and yes, it was a perverse kind of badge of honour. However most of the lads I trained with back then were miners or worked in physical jobs, brickies etc. All they wanted to do was hit each other! We were never under any illusion that what we were practising was a fighting art primarily and not some effete eastern philosophy. I never owned a pair of hand mitts until well into the nineties so with the latest in body protection we should all be getting padded up and stuck in!
